What are the Requirements for an Adoption?
The requirements that you, the adopting family, need to be concerned about in the matching and placement of a child, are those determined by several sources: you, the birth parents, the state and federal governments, and the adoption agency you decide to work with.
For example, you may only want to adopt a child from a specific state, a child of a specific race, religion, or cultural heritage, a "drug free" child, or place some other restrictions on the child you hope to adopt. The birth parents may decide to place their child only with a couple or single person, with persons of a specific religion, age, race, sexual orientation and even a specific state. The federal and state governments may have restrictions that involve Native American Indian children or a child of a specific race. And finally, the adoption agency may have restrictions related to marital status, age, race, religion, etc.
Who are We able to Help?
The goal of our agency, Adoption Services, is to find a placement where your restrictions, and the restrictions of the birth parents, the state and federal governments, and the adoption agency are all consistent with each other. Our Agency has worked with adopting families and birth parents from all over the world, of all religions, racial and ethnic backgrounds, people in their twenties to early sixties, divorced persons, singles and newlyweds, gays, lesbians, families where both parents or neither parent works full-time, families living in mobile homes and apartments, and families who already have, or not yet have, children.
What are Our (Adoption Services) Approval Requirements?
The following outlines the approval/disapproval criteria that Adoption Services uses in working with adopting persons.
We have no preset agency restrictions except your ability to be a good parent, compliance with all applicable state and federal laws and regulations, and successful completion of our Registration, Application, and Home Study processes. We will work with an adult of any age, sex, sexual orientation, race, or ethnic background, marital status, length of marriage, family composition, religion, etc.
Each adopting person must complete required state criminal history, child abuse, and FBI clearances. Additionally, each adopting person is required to submit a sworn statement indicating whether he/she has ever been charged with or convicted of a crime in any state and/or other jurisdiction. If there is evidence of any criminal or child abuse history, we will thoroughly investigate the circumstances. If the investigation suggests that an adopting person could be unfit, and/or there is a founded child abuse record or a conviction of a barrier crime (i.e. crime that the state has determined automatically prohibits a person from adopting), Adoption Services will not place a child with the family.
Multiple personal and work references for each applicant must be provided. Recent physical examinations (within the past six months) and medical references must also be provided. These medical references must indicate a “normal” life expectancy and lack of any communicable diseases.
You may be required to obtain written clearances from the provider of any specialized health care you have received.
We ask you to describe the discipline techniques you plan to use with the adopted child. These techniques must be consistent with current psychological practices regarding the use of discipline, and they must comply with the laws in your state of residence.
Married adopting persons who are not able to demonstrate that they have a stable marriage and/or if they have undergone a marital separation within the past year, ASI may request an independent evaluation of their marriage.
Your home must be a safe environment for a child, must be inspected by a licensed adoption agency, and must meet all the requirements of an approved home according to your state’s laws and regulations.
Adoption Services must receive copies of your Tax Returns for the past three years showing financial stability.
You must be truthful and forthcoming in the information you provide. You will be disapproved and lose all fees paid if you provide information that is false and/or misleading.
You must complete all Adoption Services documents and comply with federal, state, and local adoption laws and regulations.
In our Domestic Programs, you should be willing to accept a child of either gender, although you can specify the health, racial mix that you will accept, and other criteria.
In International adoptions, each country has its own set of requirements such as age, marital status, sexual orientation, health history, and/or criminal history that you must meet.
Where Can I Find Additional Sources of Information?
We, at Adoption Services, have extensive experience with both intrastate and interstate adoption. We are here to help you determine the best choice for you and then to help implement your choices in a way that will eliminate problems and concerns. We are able to help you with an adoption regardless of the state in which you reside.
For additional help with an adoption agency adoption visit the link Selecting an adoption Agency. You can also find a list of adoption agencies in your state and neighboring states at the link Domestic Adoption Agencies.
Please visit our home page to read about our commitment to assist adoptive parents like you as well as pregnant women and birth parents.
Why would You Want an Adoption Consultant?
There are many risks when you go to adopt a child including losing a child after you have already taken them home (referred to as a disruption), losing all of the money you have invested in the adoption if the birth mother changes her mind, or finding that there are previously unknown or undisclosed fees that may appear. Dr Berger has helped thousands of adopting families with domestic adoptions and international adoptions and he is available to assist you no matter what type of adoption you chose to pursue and regardless of whether you work with an adoption agency, facilitator or adoption attorney. He can help you save your time, effort and money in helping you to decide what routes to take and the best way to achieve your goal of adopting a child. He can help reduce your risks and potential pain and can help you avoid many of the problems and pitfalls found in the adoption process. You can read and download his free adoption manual or, for more information on how he can help you, please visit his Adoption Consultant link.
Can your Agency Help a Birth Parent Living in Any State?
We are licensed in multiple states and are able to help a birth mother, birth father, and adopting family living in any of the 50 U.S. states and even U.S. citizens (birth parents and families) that are living in other countries.