How does a Child Adoption by Relatives work?

Placing your child with a family member is an option for some birth parents. This choice may not require a lawyer or an adoption agency. But, if you want your child to be permanently adopted by a relative, the process becomes more complex. It can also be emotional both immediately and over the long run.

If you feel unsure about placing with a relative, (contact us) toll-free at 1(800)943-0400) or reach out to another not-for-profit adoption agency. Since 1985 our not-for-profit agency has helped over 6000 birth parents and families and has completed over 900 successful placements.

Each state defines “relative” in its own way. This can include family members by blood or marriage. The relative must be willing and able to care for the child, provide a safe home, and meet the child’s needs.

To learn about the laws in your state, visit ChildAdoptionLaws.com or the Child Welfare Information Gateway website.

What are other issues to Consider in Adoption?

If you are not placing with a relative consider contacting us (contact us) toll-free at 1(800)943-0400) or another not-for-profit adoption agency and avoid a private adoption. Private adoptions can carry serious risks for both you and your child.

Sometimes, adoptive families may promise updates, photos, or ongoing contact. However, once your parental rights are ended, these promises may not be legally enforceable—even if they are written down.

Without the guidance of a licensed adoption agency, the process can become very difficult. Many troubling adoption stories reported in the news involve private adoptions. Some states have even made private adoption illegal and require all adoptions to go through licensed agencies.

Is Financial Help available in a Relative Adoption?

Some states offer financial support to relatives who care for a child. These programs are often called “kinship care” or “relative caregiver” programs. In some states relatives who qualify as foster parents may receive foster care payments and other benefits to help cover the cost of caring for the child.

Can your Agency Help a Birth Parent Living in Any State?

Our agency is licensed in multiple states and can assist birth parents and adoptive families across all 50 states, as well as U.S. citizens living abroad. If you have questions or would like guidance, please contact us.

We are here to help you make the best decision for your child, protect your rights, and ensure you receive any financial, medical, and other help allowed by law. There is never any cost to you as a birth parent, whether you choose to work with us or not.